Fast forward 25 years and I find myself appreciating that odd family.
Somewhere in the last few years, we have decided that mainstream is not for us. Just because "everyone else" does it, doesn't make it right. Remember when your mom used to say "If everyone else jumped off a cliff, would you do it too?" Yah, the same rules apply as parents. Thanks for that timeless wisdom, Mom. :)
We are very careful about what our girls watch on television. Some days I'd like to chuck it out the window, but I do appreciate the quiet every once in a while. I'm not that crazy. The girls know what shows they are allowed to watch so when we are at a friends house, they will tell me if something inappropriate is on.
While I don't make all their clothes (I can, just choose not to), I do make sure that their clothing is age appropriate (and usually a bargain!).
We try to avoid fast food and sit together as a family each night. We made the decision to start eating organically a couple years ago and have seen such benefits from it. We also added vitamins, supplements and probiotics to our daily regimen so the girls are rarely sick.
We spend time outside being active.
Our girls don't always get along, but they do love each other and play well majority of the time. We have taught them that friends will always come and go but you will always be sisters, so you might as well get along now.
We talk about thankfulness a lot in our home. The girls take turns praying and it warms my heart to hear the things that they are thankful for.
They are precious to us.
When I was younger my mom wouldn't let me go over to a friends house because she didn't know the parents. When I asked her why, she explained it this way: "If I had a diamond worth 5 million dollars, I wouldn't just give it to anyone to take care of. I would choose only the most qualified, and trustworthy people to take care of it. YOU are worth far more than a five million dollar diamond to me. So I'm not going to just let anyone take care of you." That explanation has always stuck with me. I've already told my girls the same thing. They may not understand how much five million is, but they understand that jewels are valuable.
Recently we have been making decisions about schooling for our girls. We have realized we are not the norm. Regular public school is not meeting their needs. It's certainly not a place I want to send my precious gems to sit all day. We don't feel called to homeschool....yet. Private school would require a second mortgage on our home, so that's not an option either. Our only other option is a charter school. We've researched until our eyes are blurry. We've toured, asked questions, filled out applications, and now we just pray and wait.
When I told Reagan's teacher about our desire to switch over to a charter, she said "That's a great option for a family like yours."
A family like ours.
Yep, we are that family. And I wouldn't have it any other way.
